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Julia Edelman's avatar

I love this. I've been in a transitional phase right now more than ever with health, work, where I'm living, and I'm started to lean into admitting to those I trust, "I'm still figuring it out," rather than performing as if I know. It feels much more authentic and you receive more honesty from others when you come from that place.

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Victor's avatar

this has found me at a time when I'm learning how to embrace uncertainty. thank you so much :)

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Someone’s Weird Sister's avatar

Oh to read this as an uncertain, unfinished, confused-final-year-uni-student is to be seen and heard and comforted. Thank God for brains like yours :,)

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chynnascolumn's avatar

This is a great piece as you really described what it means to be a multi-dimensional being. Do you mind if I include your article in one of my posts to shoutout?

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Hayley ryan's avatar

I needed to hear this

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Eunah's avatar

Wow

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Julius Sese's avatar

Needed this so much ! Thank you !

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Bre Ransome's avatar

My "10 Year Plan" TikTok from 2021, I think you'll appreciate: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8MbG9DN/

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Sudhanshu Sehgal's avatar

Everybody is a making in progress for whatever age they are and everyone of us is learning everyday, for who thinks he/she has learned-is living in sort of dissonance or does not want to learn.

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Siddharth Batra's avatar

Hello from someone who has barely planned his life more than a month from the present haha! What a refreshing take!

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buc's avatar

wow insane read, thank you for this, being unfinished and uncertain makes life more exciting and makes you as a person more adaptable to roll with punches

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whispers and echoes's avatar

Thank you sooo much, such needed read>

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Kristal's avatar

needed this 🫶🏼

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Diane Johnston's avatar

Celebrating incompleteness - and What do I want to be when I wake up in the morning? Lol

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Virtually Marie's avatar

Love your thoughts on this!

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valencia's avatar

exactly what i needed to read today! thank you!

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